Have You Ever Noticed The Same Relationship Problems Keep Showing Up With Different People?
Different people.
Different situations.
Yet somehow…
the same problems keep repeating.
Why?
The simple answer is because of your subconscious programming.
Your subconscious programming lives beneath your conscious awareness. It’s virtually invisible to you because programming is everything you don’t have to think about how to do. It happens automatically, so most of us don’t notice it.
When your programming is invisible to you, it’s hard to change.
But what if there was a way to see it?
Book a Private Reflection Session and learn how to see your own subconscious programming.
See What a Private Reflection Session Looks Like.
It’s easier to show you how to find programming than it is to tell you.
Watch a real Private Reflection Session as we use problems from someone’s relationships to uncover the subconscious programming behind them.
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Why Use Relationships?
Your programming naturally influences the way you think about and interpret your relationships.
Because you carry that programming from one relationship to the next, completely different people can create the same emotional response.
When the emotional response is the same, then you’re thinking about whatever is happening in the same way you did before, with your same old programming.
Your relationships become mirrors or reflections that reveal programming that is invisible to you.
That’s why this system is called the Reflection Method.
What a Private Session Gives You
Your Private Reflection Session isn’t just an explanation of subconscious programming.
You’ll uncover what programming you’re carrying with you and where it came from.
Your Personal Emotion Decoder
The Emotion Decoder is a simple tool that helps you understand what programming is happening behind your emotions.
Using this tool, during your Private Reflection Session, we’ll begin building a working model of your subconscious programming together.
The more you use the Emotion Decoder the more complete picture you’ll see of your subconscious programming that you can see outside of your thoughts.
Instead of wondering why you keep having the same problems with different people, you’ll have a process for looking for the answer yourself.
Try the Emotion Decoder for Free
You don’t have to wait for a Private Reflection Session to start looking at your own programming.
The Emotion Decoder is a simple tool that helps you connect what you’re feeling to the programming behind it.
Enter your email below and we’ll set up your free account so you can start using it right now.
What Do You Do Once You Can See Your Programming?
A Private Reflection Session shows you the system for seeing your subconscious programming.
But seeing your programming doesn’t change it.
That’s where The Reflection Method Curriculum comes in.
The Reflection Method teaches you the complete process.
You’ll learn how to work with your subconscious to break down old programming.
You’ll learn how to create new programming.
And you’ll get additional support through the community.
Your First 3 Months Inside The Reflective Collective Are Included.
The Reflective Collective Community is where you’ll continue practicing and applying the Reflection Method while you’re going through the curriculum.
I’ll hold recorded clinics where you can watch me work through real situations and reinforce how I apply the method to myself and other people.
I’ll also host a Zoom call every month where you can ask questions about what you’re learning and get help with any questions you’ve got.

About DJ
For years, I’ve been studying and applying the same process I now use with clients.
What began as a personal search for answers eventually became the Reflection Method.
I spent years using it to better understand my own programming, relationships, and recurring problems before sharing it with others.
Since then, I’ve helped people see their programming and show them how to create change.
Maybe It’s Time to Look Somewhere Different
You’ve probably spent a lot of time trying to understand the people in your relationships.
Why did they say that?
Why did they do that?
Why does this keep happening?
But there’s another part of every one of those relationships that’s much harder to see.
The one thing that stays consistent from one relationship to the next is…
You.
Your thoughts…
Your programming.
The Reflection Method gives you a way to look at the part of your relationships that’s been with you the entire time.
