You’ve been called dramatic. If you’re reading this, probably by more than one person.
Maybe a partner said it. Maybe a parent, a friend or someone at work.
The word tells you where to look
When people call you dramatic, there’s usually a program running in your subconscious.
Your subconscious is the part of your mind that runs without you thinking about it. It records everything, and it creates programs out of what you experience and feel the most. That’s what programming is: something repeated until it became automatic.
Your thinking will match your programming. If your programming says people are out to get you, it will keep making you think people are out to get you, even when they aren’t.
Programs are hard to see, because they feel like your own thinking. That’s why a word that keeps coming back from different people is worth paying attention to. It tells you where to look.
Why it’s called the Reflection Method
Often, completely different people make us feel the same way. When different relationships create the same feeling, they’re reflecting something deeper than the people involved. They’re reflecting your programming.
That’s why it’s called the Reflection Method. Your relationships become mirrors that show you your programming.
It isn’t who you are
Being called dramatic can feel like a judgment of who you are. It isn’t. The way your subconscious responds isn’t who you are. It’s what you were taught.
And because it was recorded, it can be found, and it can be changed.
The feeling confirms what you’re looking at
The word tells you where to look. The feeling confirms what you’re looking at.
That’s what the free quiz is for. It starts with “dramatic” already picked. You’ll put the feeling into your own words, check whether anyone else has made you feel the same way, and see how far back it goes. Your result is built from your answers. About three minutes. No email needed.
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